81、举得起放得下的叫举重，举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜，大多数人的爱情，都是负重的。
You can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight lifting, and you can hold something up and put it down, it's called burden bearing. It is a pity that most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
